A story i never know before

this afternoon, dad told me the story about how he went through his old days when everyone despise him.
I dun have the idea how he suddenly wanted to tell me all those things,but i believe,
he thought i already have the ability to think wisely and thoroughly on his hardships,
and he knew,
i will have a completely new thoughts on it (as i believe).

Years before 1978, dad helped 7th uncle ( Qip beh) in his pasar malam business. Dad's salary was just Rm160, which i dun even think it was sufficient in 1980s. Qip beh's wife was getting unreasonable..she was thinking to lower down my dad's salary somemore..
after tht my dad decided to quit pasar malam.
he came to agong's shop in sri medan where most the villagers are malays..
He started to learn all those hardware things( 5 jin). Meanwhile, agong, dua beh, n dua beh's wife in-charge of the shop.
They also like u wanna take salary then u take, dun wana take then dun wan.
During the time, dad was with my mum in tua pasar there, he was dating my mum.
heard tht it was a sweet lifetime.haha.

1979, chinese new year, chu 4, an accident happened in bukit pasir, rght in front 4beh's shop where 4hm(4beh's wife) house were over there.
A gong, tua beh, 3beh n 4 beh was in the car. there was petrol in their car which tua beh was goin to sell in shop.
When they reverse the car, another drunken driver came straight and crush.........
because of the petrol, the car exploded, 4 of them burnt dead. \
i wonder how 4hm took it..as she saw it on her eyes..
dad told me, it was just dat qiao,sometimes.
when the accident took place, he was in my mum's home,eating chicken.
he said, it's like, heaven wanna punish them for eating such a gud thing when his dearly family was having a toughh time.
my mum's 下巴脱臼 when eating the chix, n dad immediately sent her to hospital..
when he reached there, every ppl told him, his father, brothers had an accident..n dad saw all of them in the hospitals...
i cannot imagine how the situation would be..after all their wives had come to hospitals..
they all have their children, all still young and duno wat's going on...
it shud be a tough time for them....
what can be more sad than losing family..
tears drop non-stop when story tills here..

Following by tht, dad started to in-charge of the shop in sri medan as only left him to support the shop//
daddy let tua hm to stay n take care of her..
throughout the days, all his brother despise him n think how he can manage a business..think he was useless n nth could help..
dad just drive his van to shop everyday he used it to carry stocks to shop..
After tht, mum married to dad n started their live..mum also helped dad in his shop..
n the thing tht i most angry is when the taoke beside my dad's shop ask my dad: Do u wan to sell ur van? got ppl wanna buy leh!
he despise my dad n ask him to end the business!
but my dad nvr do so..he said, he must have self-confidence and determination so tht to maintain the business!!!!!
In the end, he succeed to do so!! he made all the suppliers to trust him, n give him more n more goods to sell in his shop..
It was his decision which change our lives..

30years over now, and lian seng heng trad co. also change its face..it's now a big shop n a trustable shop in sri medan..
all the villagers come to im to buy anyting they need..my dad know all the mechanical things..he like a pro in 5jin now..haha..it was really a success in sri medan..
i truly admire him..
his love to family is what i can see , i can feel, obviously..

but i never know,there was a story behind all the success.

Daddy, buck up!!!!!

I will continue your spirit, until 1 day,
when i tell my children,
they will also feel the same as me, for now.

Life that i hv nvr regretted about it

Water of fountain at Suntec City

LiFe tht i hv nvr regretted
it's been 3 months since i wrote my last blog..things happened tremendously n im still wondering where to start from..haha..first of all..gonna tell some of my friens that havent been updated by me that..he got girlfriend le!! haha..sincerely, i congrate him deep in my heart..but i nvr say out..coz quite alot of frens asked me dun to get hurt once again le..but actually the hurt lasted for 1 night only lah.after that laugh with them i jiu recovered le!! haha..happy for him coz he may had found his true love who will cherish him..

after tht, really gotta thank god who put me in DCP 1B 23!!!!!What a bloody good n exciting class man!!!besides from playing n laughing..i have some gal frens who can let me lay and depend on when i was lost n sad..I hope they really know tht i really appreciate their kindness to treat me so good since im a foreigner..I really thought tht i would be alone here coz they have their frens here all around n yet im the one who is alone..But i was wrong..they treat me vry vry gud..that i nvr been doted so much before..I love hanging around with them..it just makes me feel..I have a home here, too... =)

Thanks serene for being the one who gives me alot alot alot alot of care and love

Thanks amy for giving me the feeling tht i can also be important to somebody

Thanks xueling and hazel for being my good frens, and i need to apologize to you( im truly guilty).

Thanks xinyi for being my 1st close fren in class! though i dun really understand u, but ur so sweet..be urself and that's important!

Thanks jameston for caring me sometimes. Actually,want to tell u long time ago, that it's my 1st time to have such close touching with a guy..haha dun hu si luan xiang coz before tht i was in a gal school mar..

Thanks fenghao for making me laugh alot alot..u know..u have the superpower to change me from emo to siao za bo..serious..

(Everyday i was like laugh n laugh n laugh non stop~ fenghao n jameston is truly a perfect pair of jokers!!)

Thanks julian for showing me 1 semester of 'kindness'.U got ur good character also,sometimes.
Thanks the others for being my classmates!! without u 1b23 is just nothing..haha..say frankly..if next year we separate leh..i will miss them much!!

Hopefully our clique can stick together!! =)))

Today is my last day in singapore for this semester..
i hv nvr been so doted before that they even come to my house to send me off..
hahaha..love love love love...thanks my dearest..

And finally gotta tell my bp frens i hv come back! I never forget u all..though when im in singapore we can seldom contact coz some of u dun even online...hmmm sad sad...but we can come out to lian luo gan qing d !!

2 more months to my 18th bday..what can i ask for more..the same wish that i wish for the past few years has nvr been granted so far..haiz..li min keep it up!!

As long as u believe, U stand a chance to own happy ending!!!